Having read Adino’s 50 Great Outdoor Wedding Ideas and Themes a few days ago, I feel like writing something about wedding and funeral today.

It’s quite similar to the comment I left at Adino’s blog, just that this is a looooooonger version.

You see, I am a person who is very against wedding ceremonies, wedding dinners and wedding parties. If you have been reading my blog, you may have come across blog posts mentioning how much I abhor attending wedding receptions and dinners.

There are a few whys I hate attending wedding dinners. First off, it’s very time-consuming. I had had a few bad experiences when I was still living in KL that made me decide that it’s enough.

There was once that a wedding dinner started at 9.30 p.m. I arrived before 7 p.m. and I had to wait until 9.30 p.m. for the dinner to start. At that time, I was pissed off, thinking why I would let people waste ‘my precious time’? You know, it’s like ‘using your own time to do the stuff you don’t like‘.

Ya, now I am at the stage of ‘spending my time doing the stuff I like’. Are you ‘using your own time to do the stuff you don’t like’ or are you ‘letting others use your time to do the stuff you dislike’?

Coming back to the wedding I mentioned just now, it’s only a not-close-at-all colleague’s wedding dinner. I don’t even remember his name now!

So, I would only attend wedding dinners of those whom I am very, very close to.

Secondly, it’s money-consuming. A wedding money gift costs between RM60 and RM200, depending how close you are to the bride/bridegroom or the parents of both and also how much ‘face’ you want to give.

It’s fine if there is only a wedding dinner to attend once a month or every few months. But it’s not okay when there are 5 or 6 dinners in a month during peak season! Well, you do the calculations.

To me, a credit-card-debt woman who is now in AKPK debt management program, it’s a financial burden.

Imagine how much annual service tax hubby and I had to pay if we still had the 15 credit cards!! 15 principal credit cards from 6 banks. Phew, it’s RM750!

According to financial analysts, it is predicted that at least 30% of the holders of 11 million cards in circulation who have more than one card will have to pay RM100 every year.

You know, the applications for new credit cards dropped by 80% following the Government’s announcement of the service tax starting 2010.

Don’t you think this new imposition is good to those who are thinking of applying credit cards? It scares them off and thus they carry no credit cards. No credit cards mean no credit card debts, right?

When there are no credit card debts, people will have no reason to turn to non-performing loans, short-term loans, personal loans, debt consolidation loans, AKPK debt management programs, or bankruptcy easily.

It’s also good to those of you who have stacks of credit cards; you are forced to reduce the number of cards you own. Having fewer credit cards means you have to cut down on spending, retail purchases and impulse buying.

Also, you get to learn to use cash and debit cards. As a credit-card-debt woman who is in AKPK’s debt management plan, I must say that I love using cash and debit card now.

I have had two debit cards, Public Bank Visa debit card and Tune Money Visa debit card. Both cards are not used for retail purchases. Noop. They are only used for collecting PayPal money from my online income.

Since PayPal has now allowed Malaysians to link their PayPal accounts to their Malaysian banks or overseas banks operating in Malaysia, I think I can totally stop using and renewing my Tune Money Visa debit card.

As for the Public Bank Visa debit card, I will keep on using as a backup for PayPal fund withdrawals.

The free debt management program is offered by AKPK, Agensi Kaunseling dan Pengurusan Kredit, in Malaysia.

As a credit-card-debt woman who has been in AKPK’s debt management program for a year now, let me assure you that it’s a free DMP that involves NO credit counseling fee, NO enrollment fee and NO monthly service.

It’s normal that when you are looking for help with a financial crisis, you may wonder if AKPK is really a free of charge agency that can help you. The answer is YES.

You may have heard of for-profit and non-profit credit counseling and debt management agencies, but they don’t exist in Malaysia. There is only ONE credit counseling and debt management agency that provides free credit counselling and debt management programme services in Malaysia so far.

Like you, I am worried about hidden charges too. Malaysian banks, agencies and companies are simply too notorious for charging surprise fees and hidden charges to consumers. Fortunately, I haven’t been charged any fees by AKPK so far.

With the faltering economy and free credit counseling and debt management services offered by AKPK, the number of people seeking help from the agency has increased tremendously.

If you think that you are in need of help for your financial trouble, you had better waste no more time. Waiting may only end up costing you more. A few days’ time can mean the difference between settling a debt or watching it go into a default status and having third party collection involved.

Hurry! Go to a nearby AKPK branch, attend its briefing and fix an appointment to see a credit counselor there and understand what a debt management program is.

A debt management program is a good way to take care of an escalating credit card debt and other money problem without having to declare bankruptcy or deal with collection agencies.

Wow, it’s been a year since I started making monthly debt repayment to AKPK! You know, I have also been able to save extra money in my personal savings account as emergency fund due to the debt management plan.

A debt management program is one of the many debt relief options that a credit counselor might suggest when you’re having issues with credit card debt.

It is also a good option if you don’t want to apply for a debt consolidation loan or declare bankruptcy.

Okay, let’s see some of the benefits of enrolling in a debt management program.

1. Reduced Interest Rates. Once enrolled in a DMP, your credit counselor will negotiate with your creditors to reduce your interest rates.

Interest rates will vary depending on your situation and your creditors, most rates are between 2% to 9% and under certain circumstances, some creditors may completely eliminate their interest rate to 0% interest.

2. One Single Payment. Instead of making multiple credit card payments on various due dates, a debt management plan enables you to make ONE payment to One agency on ONE due date.

I will never forget those old days when I had to run 6 banks to bank in 15 credit card payments!

Now I only need to make one payment to the credit counseling and debt management agency’s collection account by the end of every month. The single monthly payment will then be distributed by the agency to the creditors.

3. Waived Late Payment Fees. If you have late payment fees for delayed credit card payments, the credit counseling agency will help you negotiate with your creditors to waive them.

4. Creation of a Budget. The program you choose usually will help you to organize your personal finances with the creation of a budget. In this way your credit counselor can make sure that you are able to make your monthly debt repayment on time.

5. Peace of Mind. With the help of a debt management plan, you are able to start organizing your money and seeing how the amount of debt reduces and your personal savings increases.

Of course, there are disadvantages of enrolling in a debt management plan too. Before you decide if a debt management program is right for you, check the other debt relief alternatives and balance the advantages and disadvantages.

Debt management program, also known as debt management plan, is individually designed to consolidate all your multiple credit card payments into one lower payment.

The debt management repayment is often made affordable to you so that you can pay all your credit card payments.

Of course, a debt management plan is NOT an option for you if you are already at advanced litigation process or involved in bankruptcy.

If you find that a debt management program is right for you after a credit counselling session, your credit counsellor will start negotiating with your creditors to lower the credit card monthly payments, reduce the interest rates, and waive late payments and over-the-limit charges.

Often times, your creditors or banks will agree to the affordable repayment plan just so they can receive any amount of payment towards the balance you owe them.

As a credit card debt woman who is now in a free debt management program, I must admit that it is a great solution for helping me get rid of my credit card debts.

The DMP not only allows me to pay ONE lower repayment every month, it also stops the wave of annoying or even threatening phone calls or warning letters from the banks and credit card companies.

Signing up for a debt management program is easy; it’s a matter of finding a credit counseling and debt management company you feel comfortable with that is difficult.

Make sure you find a credit counselling and debt management agency that will work best for you. Remember, you want the right debt management program to put an end to your pestering debt problem, not creating more debt.

Note: If you would like to know the process of applying for the AKPK DMP, please take your time to read A Credit Card Debt Woman is Under AKPK Debt Management Program Malaysia.

Of course, you don’t need a debt management program, also known as debt management plan, if you are able to lower the payments and pay down your debt steadily.

There are many ways to lower your monthly credit card payments, but I am sharing with you a few which I have tried before.

1. Pay More Than the Minimum Payments. If you pay more than the monthly required payments, then your minimum payment requirements will begin to drop in subsequent months.

To make this work, you must pay well above your minimum payment requirements AND stop using the credit cards for purchases.

2. Negotiate Lower Credit Card Payments with Your Creditors. Many banks and companies are willing to work out an alternate payment plan with you if you are sincere in paying off the balance.

3. Balance Transfer Your Multiple High APR Card Debt Balance to A New Credit Card with a Much Lower Interest Rate. Take advantage of low interest or 0% interest balance transfers. Interest charges are calculated on the basis of the interest rate or the APR applicable to your credit cards, so a lower APR rate means that your credit card debt will grow at a slower pace and thus switching over to a card with lower APR makes sense.

By transferring your multiple high APR card balance debt to a new low APR credit card, you are able to save money and reduce debt at the same time.

4. Refinance or Second Mortgage on Your House. By doing a refinance or second mortgage on your home, you can use the equity in your home to pay off your high interest credit cards.

The interest rate you get with a mortgage refinance is typically higher than the average, but it is often always lower than your credit card interest rates.

As a credit-card-debt woman who is now in the AKPK free debt management program (DMP), I have tried all the above mentioned ways to lower my credit card payments; I was able to reduce my credit card debt from RM63,809 to RM40,344 in one and a half years.

But why did I still opt for the debt management program to lower my credit card payments? There are a few reasons stated in Why Opting for AKPK Debt Management Program (DMP).

Due to AKPK’s lower debt repayments to my credit cards, I am able to Start Saving Money for Emergency Fund.

First off, the debt management program I enrolled in my country is FREE; there is neither enrollment fee nor monthly service charge.

As far as I am concerned, there is only ONE credit counseling and debt management agency in my country. It’s different from the US where there are lots of non-profit and for-profit credit counseling agencies.

Since it’s free debt management plan that involves zero service fee, why not?

Next, contacting banks and negotiating a partial settlement or a reduction in the bills is more difficult than you think.

I DID try to call up and write in asking for lower interest rates. Out of six banks, only one bank agreed to reduce the interest rate to 9%. A few banks were between 12% and 15% while the rest declined to lower the 18% per annum interest charge.

When I found out that my credit counselor was able to negotiate with banks to reduce my interest rate from 18% to 6% and 7% for some banks, and most important of all, to waive late payment fess and over limit charges, it didn’t take me long to make up my mind.

I signed up the free debt management program after the certified credit counselor explained in details what a debt management plan was and reminded me a few times that all my card accounts would be included in the program and closed.

Take note: All Your Credit Card Accounts Will Be Closed Once You Are In A Debt Management Plan (DMP). Shutting down all your accounts means that it’s likely to damage your credit score.

Since my maxing out most of my credit cards had already harmed my credit utilization ratio, a key component of credit scores, it’s okay to shut down all card accounts.

If you are in the US, make sure you sign up with a credit counseling agency affiliated with the National Foundation for Credit Counseling or the Association of Independent Consumer Credit Counseling Agencies.

An accredited credit counseling and debt management agency typically charges $30 one-time setup fee, and $15 per month while you’re on the debt management plan.

If you don’t want to deal with your creditors directly and you need help with all of your credit cards, opt to go through a debt management program.

As a credit card debt woman who is currently under AKPK’s free debt management program (DMP), I will surely advise you to cultivate the habit of using cash, rather than swiping credit cards.

But, I am not your loved one or family member, right? Why would you want to listen to me? So, the decision on whether you should apply for a credit card is up to you.

With credit card ads in television, newspapers, websites, shops and almost anywhere and everywhere asking you to apply for a credit card, it’s difficult to resist the temptation.

Besides, when you look around, most people have credit cards or multiple credit cards. So, why shouldn’t you apply for a credit card?

Furthermore, you have been told that there are endless benefits associated with having a credit card. The most important benefit of a having credit card is none other than the convenience it offers. Instead of carrying a lot of cash on you which is both inconvenient and unsafe, you just need to carry a plastic card with you.

Moreover, you get interest free credit. This means that you don’t have to pay the bills till the next monthly billing cycle. With this benefit, you can buy now and pay later when your salary arrives. What a great reason to apply for a credit card, isn’t it?

In addition to that, you get to enjoy interest-free installment payment plan. You can buy the Samsung LN32B460 32-Inch LCD HDTV or Orient Men’s Multi-Eyes White Automatic Watch you have been longing for today and pay for it in installments on your credit card.

Another good reason to apply for a credit card is the discounts on shopping. Due to the tie-ups between credit card companies and the merchants, you, as a credit card holder, get to enjoy deeper discounts, reward points or even cash back benefits.

See, there are so many benefits of applying for a credit card, aren’t there? So, why shouldn’t you apply for a credit card?

Whether you should or should not apply for a credit card, it’s a matter of personal choice.

As a credit card debt woman who is now in a free debt management program, let me share with you what a debt management program is.

A debt management program, also known as debt management plan, is a program designed to combine all your existing multiple unsecured debt payments from credit cards, students loans, personal loans, and medical bills into one payment.

So instead of paying multiple payments to various creditors on different due dates, you make a single payment to the credit counseling company you sign up the debt management plan with. The credit counseling and debt management company is then in charge of distributing the debt repayment to all your creditors.

The consolidation of multiple monthly payments into one monthly payment usually results in lowering the total monthly payment previously paid and thus allowing you to continue to pay your debt with lower payments and reduced interest rates and most important of all, restore your credit score.

However before you enroll in a DMP, it’s important that you attend a credit counseling briefing first. To effectively use your time with a credit counselor, make sure you have certain pieces of information in hand before your first meeting.

If it is determined that a recommended budget is enough to help you get out of debt, your credit counselor will NOT enroll you in a debt management plan.

Beware of credit counselor that automatically signs you up with a debt management program! This means your debt management counselor does not have your interest at heart; he tries to make money from you through collecting fees.

A certified credit counselor will help put your debts and finances in order by helping you develop workable budgets and money management skills and pay off debts.

It’s difficult to find an adult who doesn’t own a credit card these days, isn’t it? Credit cards, especially to working people and those who live very busy lives, are ultimate financial saviors.

Well, credit cards used to be my savior too when I needed cash or a particular item urgently. I loved the glamor and the convenience credit cards brought to me that I got myself 7 credit cards and ultimately loads of credit card debt.

It’s the convenience of carrying credit cards compared to carrying cash when making purchases that triggered my thirst for material things, led me into the temptation of buying stuff that I didn’t really need and eventually got me into the unmanageable credit card debt.

Having a credit card is a big responsibility. If you don’t use it carefully, you may owe more than you can repay and be suffocated by high interest rates, late payment fees, over the limit fees, cash advance charges, retail interest fees and miscellaneous fees that add exponentially to your existing outstanding balance.